Well, why be a human?
Haha, Stupid title.. No choice.. This is because i think that it's very hard to be human, well, a man, to be very specified!
What are the roles of being a male creature that is called man? Well, be a son? Be a soldier? Be a lover? Be a husband? Be a father? Be a friend? Be strong? Be less emotional? be able to support family? Well, that sound to be alot, isn't it? But, how many can a normal human being fulfil? Haha, nobody know!
Well, just only relationship. It is a big issue by itself. Nobody can says that he is master of this issue. Day in day out, there are many complicated and pricky things in each relationship. Being a boyfriend, no matter how tired you are.. You have to spend some time of yours to your partner, listen to her stories.(Well, i called them stories because of simple reasons. She would tell you who she quarrelled, who she had broken off friendship with, who is jealous of her, who she is jealous of.. Some minute things, she would also want to tell you.) well, if you refused to listen to her stories, well, good luck then!
On the other hand, you cannot tell her your problems? Reason being? She can't understand much why you are troubled? Take for example, me and my ex-partner. She can't seems to understand why i being bother so much by Army stuffs. Why am i so fussed about money?
Well, so you cannot tell her your thoughts, but she can tell you yours...
Worst of all, when you are so fed up with things around you, she still come and quarrel with, disturb you. Yet you cannot say anything, but let her wins and carry on her way.. Well, that's saddening!(if this word exists)
Why must be a human?
posted by HeNG at 9:15 PM
1 Comments:
Well, i was just thinking as to why guys cant tell their gf their problems? I personally think it might have something to do with pride. Other than that i think it might be because of this "ancient" society of sterotype.. Where guys are supposed to be macho, strong and no tears and whatever rubbish.. while guys are supposed to be demure, mild-tempered and whatever shit la.. For all that i know, i seriously feel that everyone should open up and dare to show your feelings. For i think that the guessing game that was famous in the past is no longer in trend and people should stop hinting others to guess how they feel(by not expressing themselves). I seriously think u should open up a bit and relax a bit wor... ;) Cheer up man!~ Though i always look for you when im troubled, it doesnt mean u cannot look for me when u are troubled wor... its a mutual thingy!!! ;)
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