The way people phrase their words

Sometimes,it is a little irony to find people disliking each other, even to the extent of hating, due to the way people phrase their words and the way they express their thoughts. (I'm not here to say anything about abyone, but i observe something that is weird and funny in many poeple, be it the way they react to speech and the way they phrase their thoughts.)

Yup, i do agree that everyone is free to say something he likes, we're in a very libreal society. But, how often would we stop by and think through what we are going to say, or even to do some analysis on our speech. Yes, freedom of speech is what many poeple believe in. But put yourself in the shoe of the receiver. Would you feel good upon receving something that you don't expect. Or would you be happy to receive negative comments on your positive and harmless intention? I'm not here to say that people should be petty about what others say, but it does not give any sense of goodness or it does not feel pleasant to be insult or snapped back negatively when the initial intention was harmless and out of good will. So why 'cooking' up such nonsensical and ridiculous comments or feedbacks? Does it feel good if you are the receiving end?

Like what i say, i'm NOT HERE to comment anyone on anything, cos me, at times, may also be the culprit for this act. Yup, perhaps, some might agrue that if the receiving party is not happy bout it, then just get lost. Ok, then maybe sooner or later, you might find that the population of friends around you would decrease abruptly. Why? You know the answer better than anyone.
So, please, we are not to control the freedom of speech, no one can. But, it does not mean you can use it without considering how others would feel.

So ya, this is what i feel and believe that we have a oong way to good to acheive a more gracious and understading community.